What to do when a baby is choking
If the baby is coughing hard, crying, or making noise, the airway is still open and your job is to stay close and let them clear it themselves. If the baby is silent, cannot cry, is going blue, or is making a high pitched squeaking sound, the airway is blocked. Support the head and jaw, lay them face down along your forearm with the head lower than the chest, and give five firm back blows between the shoulder blades, then turn them over and give five chest thrusts. Repeat until the object comes out or the baby becomes unresponsive, at which point you start CPR.
Noise is good. Silence is the emergency.
This is the single most useful thing to carry in your head, because it tells you whether to act or to wait. Air moving past an obstruction makes sound. A baby who is coughing, spluttering, gagging or howling is moving air, and an adult's instinct to intervene at that moment can turn a partial blockage into a complete one.
The frightening version is quiet. No cry, no cough, a look of panic, sometimes a weak high pitched noise as they try to pull air past something, and colour draining from the lips and face. That is when you move.
Call for help early
If you are not alone, send someone to call 911 the moment you start back blows. If you are alone, put the phone on speaker and keep working. Do not stop what you are doing to make a call.
The sequence
- Support the head and jawLay the baby face down along your forearm, resting your arm on your thigh, with the head lower than the chest. The head must be supported the whole time.
- Five back blowsWith the heel of your hand, five firm blows between the shoulder blades. Firm, not tentative. You are trying to shift something.
- Turn and give five chest thrustsSandwich the baby between your forearms and turn them face up, head still lower than the chest. Two fingers on the breastbone just below the nipple line, five quick inward thrusts.
- Look, then repeatCheck the mouth. If you can clearly see the object and can hook it out, do it. If you cannot see it, do not go fishing. Repeat back blows and chest thrusts.
- If they go limp, start CPRAn unresponsive baby needs compressions. Every time you open the airway to give breaths, look in the mouth and remove anything you can see.
Why blind finger sweeps make it worse
A baby's airway is narrow and their tongue is proportionally large. A finger going in without a clear target usually just wedges the object deeper, and turns something that was moveable into something that is not. This gets asked in almost every class, and the answer is always the same. If you can see it and grip it, take it. Otherwise, keep doing back blows and thrusts.
Get them checked afterwards, even if they seem fine
Two reasons. Something may still be partially lodged, and forceful thrusts on a small body occasionally cause injuries worth ruling out. A baby who was choking and now seems completely normal should still be looked at.
What causes most of these
Food, mostly, and the usual suspects are predictable: grapes, hot dog pieces, nuts, popcorn, chunks of raw carrot or apple. Then small objects, which is why the toilet roll tube test is worth knowing. If a thing fits through a toilet roll tube, it fits in a small child's airway. Around the time solids begin is exactly when parents start booking classes, which is covered in when to take an infant CPR class.
Reading this is not the same as training
This page exists so the information is in your head before you need it. It is not a substitute for putting your hands on a manikin with an instructor watching. Skills fade, and the difference between knowing the steps and being able to do them under adrenaline is practice. If you are in Indianapolis, book a class. If you are not, find an AHA or Red Cross class near you.
Sources: American Heart Association infant CPR resources; 2025 AHA and AAP Guidelines for CPR and Emergency Cardiovascular Care.
Choking questions
How do I know if my baby is actually choking?
A baby who is coughing forcefully, crying or making noise still has an open airway, and the best thing you can do is let them keep coughing. A baby who is silent, cannot cry, is turning blue around the lips, or is making a high pitched squeak has a blocked airway and needs help immediately.
Should I put my finger in to sweep the object out?
Not blindly. A blind finger sweep can push the object further in. Only remove something you can actually see and can hook out cleanly.
What if the baby goes limp?
If they become unresponsive, that is the point at which you begin CPR. See infant CPR depth and rate.
Do I still need to see a doctor afterwards?
Yes. Any baby who needed back blows or chest thrusts should be assessed, even if they seem completely fine afterwards.
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